Gentle question for you, honey....are you prepared for the possibility that OW is there tonight? I am not saying she will be...she may not be there at all.
We just don't know the status of the OW other than she's moved in H's work offices.
If you want to show up at the hockey game, you need to mentally and emotionally prepare yourself for the possibility that the OW might be there and how would you react.
Not to rain on your parade here...but this does need to be brought up.
Here's one way around this problem if you are not prepared for the OW being at the game, you can send a short text to H:
H, I think a little birdie would love to show up and cheer you on at the hockey game tonight! See ya soon.