This continues to suck. Just read the divorce decree agreement she drew up. I am smart enough to know to take it (she is walking away with cash, but I don't get hit with 20% monthly gross spousal support ON TOP OF the 25% net child support. Granted, she might not get all of that, but the risk/reward equation is not in my favor.)

Is there any good in looking at or defining how she has damaged the relationship, just so I don't feel so bad about my own contributions?


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20