More confused than ever

[woundedfool]

No I will go to counseling he just wants me to pick the counselor and make the appointment. I would rather him find one.

Any thoughts on my idea of you selecting 3, and then letting him pick from there.

Or... try a few find out who you are more comfortable with.

Or... remember telling me about the counselor at your hospital? How about them?

I think you picking the counselor gives the situation a bit of an edge, as you know what you are looking for (SBT/Pro-marriage/etc.) and you are already 6 months ahead of him in your "divorce recovery".