But I decied to move on she just keeps saying things like "what the heck you had your cake and ate too for 20 years" why can't ?"
One of my buddy's said so are you guys back together now she said "NO". He said friends with benefits her response was "his benefit is me getting along with him and that's it."
And she is always bring up the past and I can't do it anymore she won't forget about the past minor mistakes I have made so I'm just going to be civil and deal with our kids as needed. In not living in the past I made mistakes and apologized to her for them so it's over in my heart no need to dwell on it any further.
I don't like how this feels neither does she or our kids but I think it's best for my sanity!
