Oh boy. H texted me another picture of the kids. I replied:

Me: Fun, I'm jealous!
H: We wish you were with us. We are on XXX island today.
Me: Wish I were there too

I feel like we are on the cusp of something again and I think I need to prepare.

My current plan: if H invites me to do something whether it be as a family or a date with him I will go in order to continue to work to re-attract him. But any talk of R and/or moving home and I will remind him of the boundaries (which he already knows) around transparency, MCing, etc. Thoughts?


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14