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I totally get that he needs to feel that I have moved on. I just can't grasp being impolite. ha! At least I can do a week. I'll start with that.


It is not being impolite. In fact the limited times you speak with him you should be very polite and upbeat. Give every indication you are happy when you do talk to him. That is what will confuse him when you do not reply. He will be telling himself 'she is happy when we talk, but she wont always talk to me.' and 'why is she so happy?' Remember, you are not ignoring him, you are just too busy to get back with him. You are doing many important things all of which occupy your limited time. You will get to him when you have free time.

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Thanks very much pilot. I know I'll be back whining about this again soon, so apologies in advance!


Haha


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16