I agree with all of that. Which is why I'm not letting the situation not going our way deter me if that happens. I'm sticking with it, no matter what. I'll save your argument for if we have to deal w/ that.

I just know that this hurdle, if we get lucky on the next Mets game, will help smooth the next steps. If the Mets lose, it's a setback, but I'll get through and won't quit.

As Yogi Berra said, "it ain't over til it's over."

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.