Good advice Caliguy . Fake it till you make it . Ive heard that a lot . A friend of mine told me this one " he who cares the least has the most power " that works well for me because if I want to gain power then I have to make myself care less which feels good .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )