Tuff it is funny how a lot of IC's don't know about MLC, or they know the typical thoughts about it "red sports car, young blonde girlfriend and a new condo" which does happen but that's just scratching the surface. I hope one day more counselors learn about it - I suppose they will if it happens to them. It's a good idea to go to one anyway to help with your own peace. You could visit with a different one to see if you have a better connection. You're right it is extremely hard and I've said that myself, I would wish this on no one. You are doing well by acknowledging that you will work on yourself - this is definitely a learning experience for all. Take care of yourself!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
