What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

We sat down last night and divided up all the assets, everything went really well.

When we were done and looking at our entire life split up on a single page my W broke down ran to her room and started crying for almost an hour. I took the time to go for run as she had closed her door i assumed she didn't want to see me.

I think I probably should have gone to console her, as that would be a 180. However, it also violates many of the rules. Often in our relationship I would simply ignore her when she would cry, I know it was wrong but when it was almost a daily occurrence and after so many years of trying to console her, I just became desensitized to it.