I haven't done as much GALing as I probably should. I've been home a lot (I'm a very big homebody), still working on rearranging and making the place mine, and on trying to ferret out and get rid of things that remind me of him. Honestly, I really haven't felt much like going out. I probably should be getting out anyway to give me less of a chance to wallow and to have some fun with people.

I have been out to games nights and have spent time with friends, too. I'm hoping to join up with a knitting or quilting group, but the local ones are usually shut down for July and August. they'll resume in September.

I'm still looking into joining a band program, but I've been holding off until I know what my work and income situation are for the fall - it's put a bit of a damper on things, so I'm keeping an eye out for options that are less expensive.

As a free alternative, I'm looking into local volunteer opportunities. I think it might do me some good to not only see the wider world, but to see that there are problems out there much bigger than my own.


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014