LiveNow, I think you are doing a good job of dropping the rope. It takes a while to learn the technique, but when you do, things begin to change in your life.
As for your h saying he wants to buy you of the house...try not to get too excited until you see the check. I'm not trying to rain on your parade, but many of them will say this and at the end of the day, don't come through. I'm hoping he'll follow through so that you can move on w/your life in a new place that you can call your own.
I think you are doing great!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
