So this morning she asked me again about the settlement and what I've written up from our discussion. I told her I was busy yesterday but got most of it done she said she felt like I was stalling. I asked her a question about the money. For such a quiet kind person she got angry very fast. I took a deep breath and reminded her that I just wanted to see the numbers that her and the attorney came up with. She was very angry. I take another deep breath and said I'm sorry that you're angry I'm just trying to protect myself I'm just trying to make sure that this is right before I sign it. I've been told her that I'm not having very much luck finding homes and she said that's not your only option. By now she's angry of course so she's being very short. I explained to her that I didn't want to get a place have my kids get comfortable there and have their own rooms to only uproot them once again when I find a home to buy. I'm trying to remain calm and be nice but it seems like it's her way or no way at all. I don't want to threaten having to get an attorney to go through paperwork to figure out if this number is correct I can do it myself but I'm going to have to dig as she takes care of the bills. Tonight I will go to her again and ask for these numbers if she does not give me them I guess I'm going to have to find out for myself which again will take a few days and will stall the signature process intern it will make her feel like I'm stalling and she will get mad. Not sure how that is divorced busting it seems like it would make her want to get rid of me quicker. Thoughts?
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
