As I said before, he contacts me at least every other day with some comment or question or made up reason. So do I do NO CONTACT meaning no reply to him ever unless it is absolutely necessary for logistics?
As long as you stay in contact and answer his beck and call, he will not think he is losing you. When you stop altogether, save for logistics/kids/vital things, he begins to worry what is going on. Remember, DB is counter intuitive. But the key is NC should be easy because you are GAL. You do not have time for his nonsense. He is that nosey neighbor you are cordial with, but would rather keep walking to the front door and escape inside from.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16