Hi Jacket! Thanks so much for your support and telling me about your NC experience. I did check out your story the other day and it sounds like you have been dealing with some confusing stuff.

I'm curious, when you went full NC has your H kept trying to contact you? That's what I struggle with. I can pretty much ignore him when he doesn't reach out to me, but when he does contact me I just feel so weird, rude and wrong not responding at all. I guess if I don't reply he will eventually 'get the picture' that I don't want to talk to him. How have you been handling that? I'll pop over to your thread to see if you already answered this. smile

Thanks again pilot, I've realized that I keep getting this same advice, especially from guys. Like I said above, I just struggle with implementing it.

As I said before, he contacts me at least every other day with some comment or question or made up reason. So do I do NO CONTACT meaning no reply to him ever unless it is absolutely necessary for logistics?

Hugs, LisaB