I did see my IC that Tuesday, I met my W that Thursday to talk things over. I told W that having children wasn't a requirement and I should not have given her that impression, I said that shes not happy here in Cali and I hope she sees friends and family back in NC and that filing for D was probably the biggest mistake of my life. It wasn't well received, W said she would have filed anyway, I gave no response, I just reiterated that I hope she is happy when she is back and then left the apartment.
The next day, Friday, I left for the field for 3 weeks expecting nothing from my W. By the 12th, which was her leave day, I got was a text asking for me to call her, and a follow on text saying that she did not leave due to uncertainty (there was no explanation on this). She said she would leave the first week of September instead. I followed up by asking if she still needed to talk to me, and she agreed but failed to actually call. After, I told her she is welcome to text or call whenever.
W gave no indication so far of working this M out, so I'm sticking to being nice but detached. I got a award for my work in the field so I'm happy. I may be pulled to another unit that is going to open a spot here in a few months so possible move coming up. This is good news for me.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
