Not sure what to do

[Nettles]

Bob--This what I hear:

It all reads like someone who knows there is no forgiveness.

I do not cause conflict. I avoid conflict. Any deceptive behavior that I may have engaged in during our marriage never caused conflict. If you would have ignored my behavior (as any good wife would have) everything would have been fine.

And what is this? It is hard to give forgiveness when one won't receive forgiveness.