Nitty in a Nutshell (Help! I'm in a nutshell!)

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Hey Nitty - I'm right at about the same point as you are. H just beginning to take first steps toward mediation, but after a year-long waffling period. I am cooperating (but doing only the bare minimum), but not exactly helping. I'm making him do everything - set up appointments, put house on the market, find an appraiser, find his own apartment, etc. He made his bed - time to sleep in it! It's very, very difficult to keep the anger at bay, but I figure, I can let it all out once all paperwork has been signed. What's the saying? Something like 'you get further with sugar, rather than vinegar', or something like that. If I want to get what i want out of this lousy deal (financially), I'm just going to go along and play the game. There will be enough time later for a blowout! I get the 'my life is harder' thing too...it's because he made it that way! Good luck navigating your way through the muck...I'm there right along with you...