Hi Matt, I'm going to take the other side of this one. I like the informal child sharing arrangement that I have with my W. If you push too hard you will get a written Court Order where every moment of your child is set out in the Order, I hate these kind of child time Orders, and I think if they can be avoided do so. What your W is thinking makes sense. If W lives by daughter's school, it does kind of make sense to let her have daughter during the first week. The poor communication by W is inexcusable, this is what you should address. But as Shining mentioned, keep cool, calm and composed. Good luck.
