You hold the position of power as long as you dictate. The fact that you had to chase him down via phone, text, and email does not diminish that. You were following up on help he offered. Now if you were BEGGING for help he did not offer, then that is a different story. But since you are able to withdraw after you got the help, power restored.
So yea, calm down, take a breath, and remember it could always be a lot worse.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
