Thx Barrybran. You, and everyone else here, are truly awesome!

H keeps texting me about his trip with the kids. It's really a change, curious to see how long it lasts and what might come next.

Regardless, I am so stoked about some of the changes I am making for me. Getting totally on top of finances, documenting every last penny I spend. Psyched about the work --- and power tools! ---I am getting done in the yard. Now enjoying some very relaxing kid free time.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14