Not what anyone wants to hear, but feeling like if you play your cards right you'll get him back will do two things: 1) drive you crazy, 2) decrease any chances you have. You can't speed it up or guarantee anything. You can just control you.
That's not easy to apply but linking detachment to giving up is a mind trick we use to try to manipulate or live in denial. I know, I've been there. I was controlling in my M and first started DBing as an attempt at further control. If you love something set it free...
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
