What was it that was getting you all uptight about talking to your husband? Was it something you EXPECTED him to say? I guess he didn't say what you expected and you worked yourself up basically for nothing.
You go back and re-read your last thread and a half and try to take a step back from it and see it as an outsider.
DETACHED.
You might see that you have lots of expectations and that leads to you spinning all around.
Then how does your husband view that? He thinks that you are sick or not feeling well?
What are the parts of this is something that you can CONTROL and what parts can you not CONTROL?
That is what I see, from my point on the outside, looking in.
