Hi Gotan, so what made think there was an OM and an EA taking place? Your W left you, and you think there is an EA, she is the bread winner, why did she ask you if she could have a pedicure? Maybe you could give us a little more detail here.

Also, maybe you could put a little more detail in your tagline so others can more easily follow along. Any progress on cutting back with your kid's sports?


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace