I tell ya ... So I ask the W what the sessions concerning our son are and she sends the link ... I simply stated that I felt he would benefit from that, she asked how so .. I just said he has said/shared things that made me feel this way. This set her off ( Guilt setting in big time) .. she calls me up and its like all the positives that were going on just flew out the window ... she was upset and I could not get the spew jacket on fast enough. She went off on me ... its like she is again looking to justify her choices ... so I shot a few truth darts at her, and basically refused to take the bait. Seems MLC lingo going strong here .... she has her IC appt tonight ... and our S evidently shared some things that have set her off the past week , saying he wants our family so he can be happy .... she complains that he is always happy with me, I am the fun one while she has to be strict ... not true .. I get him to do all his chores and things we teach him without yelling at the poor kid.
So she did TM back apologizing for blowing up ( small positive) I validated telling her I can understand why she was upset ... but it still seems to be all my fault here .. not taking off the spew jacket just yet.
I pray she can get past all the crap she is holding onto and resenting me for. I just do not know if I will live to see that day.
