I followed with this email. (No, didn't consult my Oracles, just went with my gut!)
"Gubu,
Thanks for your concern. I am doing OK, but there is more to that story.
I do want to talk with you at some point about ways we can make this living situation healthier and safer for me and the kids.
It doesn't have to be today, but maybe think about how you could help with that.
And I do need to share some things with you. (No worries, "Pavlovian Puppy", nothing awful, OK?
See ya later,
---GGG"
H: "Then we'll talk after the weekend... I have to prepare for my (work thingy) and funeral in the morning." (Who died? OW? Get me a tissue...)
" Why don't you spell out what you want...that will be easier for me to understand... since I'm not there."
(I think the "since I'M NOT THERE" might be telling...)
Hmmmmmmm.
What next, Wise DBers?
----GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?