I'm so wary of him and his changes. He had flowers delivered to my work yesterday. He had everything for school packed ready and outfits picked out yesterday while I was at work. He showed up this morning bright and early and we took the boys to school together. He also forwarded me his communication with his lawyer saying he is no longer pursuing divorce.
I'm glad you are wary. I would be too. It sounds like he is in a little bit of a panic mode because of your change in demeanor. This is usually what happens when the woman lets go and the man senses it in his gut.
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I just can't feel I can commit. I don't know if my heart is all there yet.
Good for you. You have a good head on your shoulders. Be wise. This is good for HIM that you are holding back. Look how good it's working... I am glad that it is naturally happening this way. You need to see more changes in him than some flowers at work and finally getting involved with the boys for a couple of days. Jeez..
Great job...... I have confidence that you will sort things out. You did a masterful job in the last few weeks that helped turn this around. Cool, confident,decisive, mysterious... I still wouldn't show all my cards. I would let him know that you really aren't sure how you feel right now. Maybe even tell him that you think he should go to counseling on his own first before you commit to it as a couple.
Relax, enjoy, one day at a time..... AND remember... Always be nice....
I am glad that it is naturally happening this way. You need to see more changes in him than some flowers at work and finally getting involved with the boys for a couple of days. Jeez..
