Hi Meghan, I too have similar thoughts and some of them are based in reality. My WAH is making changes in his life that are what I wanted him/us to do and in the same breath he says that we have different goals and dreams. He is living MY secret dreams for us, and saying that I do not share them. It blows.

But know that chances are your H is not doing fantastic and having a better life. And it sounds like you are truly the fantastic one of the two of you!

Stay strong!
Hugs, Lisa

PS: Old Dog, those are terrific resources for stopping bad thoughts. I need them. Thanks!