I love the video tape idea Mighty, but you're probably right that they would love it...all about them!
So last night before I went to bed, I was reading on the boards over some older posts and saw someone talking about the pursuer and distancer. I just so happen to have the book, but hadn't read it yet. Holy cow, this is SO H and me!!
It did hurt to read some of the characteristics, but it's so true. I really have a lot to work on. I'm getting better with some stuff, but man, what a wake up call. I'll finish reading the workbook part tonight and will begin what I need to do to fix my issues. I just haven't figured out how I became this way.
Side note, H is throwing a temper tantrum this morning over a pair of golf shoes that fell apart yesterday. He called the manufacturer and they said there's nothing they can do after 2 years....yet "I'm not done yet" won't let it go!! Validated 3 1/2 hours later.
Last edited by Atsbaby; 08/18/1406:31 PM.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
