With this ^^^^ email, I am coming across the way I want.
Supportive, open.. someone he can feel comfortable talking to. Someone strong and unlikely to freak out. I gave him an opening...
This creates positive feelings and attraction. ---------------------------
The other craziness I considered writing showed a person who is hurting, who reminds him of all the pain he has caused, who makes him feel guilty and uncomfortable.
That would create negative feelings and avoidance. --------------------
It's all Amoeba training!
Sometimes being the trainer is hard, though.
I had to remind myself of my goals, stop spinning, and focus on what I can control.
I can always walk away, or agree to talk another time. I need not agree to ANYTHING, even any conversation.
"There is nothing to fear but fear itself." Right?
RIGHT!
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
