I definitely sense warming from him. He's off with the kids this week, that's why he was at the house early today to pick them up, and he's already sent me some photos of them.
I wonder if there are other things I can do (besides cooking and chatting) to continue to influence things in a positive direction? Any one with ideas, please share!
One thing for certain is my mood and demeanor matters so, so much. I think he's been on guard for weeks, waiting for me to explode, but since I haven't maybe he's finally loosening up again a bit. And you know, I really *want* to be more of a positive person, I don't want to explode and live with lots of anger anymore. I want to be happier than I have been the last several years and tried to sweep under the rug and ignore.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
