Thanks Mighty, Even knowing that the monster was coming didn't stop the disappointment when it arrived. The problem I have with her getting involved with the tax sitch is that she will cause things to get out of whack. She will undo work that has already been done. Having two people who don't even speak to one and other try to address a complicated problem that could cost much money is just a stupid idea. She doesn't know what the heck she is doing but as an MLCer loves to do, she wants to stick herself in the middle! By sending something that has already been sent and addressed all she will do is restart the whole process only this time she will be the one who will have to get notices that make no sense and have to deal with all the fallout and I KNOW she won't be able to handle it. I am already so stressed out because of her running away from 26 years together. Because she can't seem to understand why she feels the way she does and needs to blame me.
I want to just get off the roller coaster now, please. I am at the breaking point with all that the pain caused by my W. Not just to me but to my D's, her mother, my family, everyone! Every time I take a step forward she finds a way to push me back down. It's like she wants to cause me pain. She wants to punish me and hurt me. My life is just so out of whack and she is the one who caused it to become like that. I'm finding out that I made mistakes on my taxes. Nothing that is really bad but stuff that happens. I'm trying to fix those mistakes and make things right but instead of only having to worry about dealing with the IRS, I now have to worry about dealing with her! At the same time I have to deal with the D and all that entails, making my job work so I can make enough to live, making sure my D14 is doing OK through all this crap and the D, my D19 is needing money help but I can't help her because of what my W did and I have to get my home sorted now that my W has taken so much of the furniture and there is "stuff" everywhere and no place for it!
I just didn't need her getting involved. She seemed to understand this at first but now won't listen. Since her MLC she seems to always do exactly the opposite of what I ask. In this case it can really hurt me!
Sorry about the rant. I just need to get going and deal. Thanks for the kind words, Mighty. Nice to know I'm not alone out here!
