Trying to stay patient- part 4

[Train]

Agree with this ^^^.

You only stand to weaken your stance if you tell her what you're doing and/or ask why she didn't respond. That, to me, looks like you're grasping at straws to give her one.last.chance to reconsider. And that looks weak and desperate and "grabby," and she won't respect it.

Have you been to a L at all through this process, Tar? Just curious.