I feel like it's over but again, she hasn't changed her surname and still gets along with me brilliantly.
Bashy, I don't really have any advice, but I do want to say that I have no intention of changing my surname, even if we D. That's the name my kids have, I have used it longer than I didn't, and I see no reason to change, even if I'm not married to the man who gave it to me.
