Hey U-Turn buddy . I dont even need to post anymore . You are saying it all for me . Our sitches are virtually the same and your wife sounds like a clone of mine . That being said , you can clearly see you are not alone in this . There are many many people out there crossing the same bridges as you . My wife has me so messed up , its not funny.I do truly believe they are hurting badly too and it seems they cant help themselves from inflicting the pain on us in which carries over to them .
Detachment is the only way to feel better . If your like me ,you want to be around her a lot but when you actually are it hurts and is uncomfortable . When you are away and detaching you feel better in many ways but yet you long to be with her at the same time. Actually GALing makes me feel better than detaching . But then again GALing is detaching lololol Im a mess this morning dude . Anyway chin up , we can do this
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
