Roughly 5-6 weeks ago, I visited my kids as per my routine around 7pm. I stayed a bit longer that night since I have only 1 weekday after XW signed my kids up for extra-curricular night classes on other weekdays. Then XW and her BF arrived home around 8.30pm. I stayed on for about 10minutes before deciding to call it a night.
That’s when the drama started. BF confronted me and accused me as an intruder. Apparently he thinks I take up too much time visiting my kids. I replied that we could all go to the police station to make a report against me. He refused.
He continued foaming in the mouth about the house doesn’t belong to me anymore. He said he doesn’t wish to see me in the house if he’s back. I told him to move out if he doesn’t wish to see me at all. I reminded him that the house doesn’t belong to him either. Bloody hell, I gave my half of the house to XW and the kids for free and he had the nerve to say this. More delusional, he continued to say that he allows me to visit my kids tonight and gives his permission to take my daughter out on weekends and I should not abuse the privilege overstaying. I reminded him again that the kids aren’t his and I do not require his permission.
He continued on about him being not feeling well and it was very late. I’m around so he couldn’t rest. It was 8.30pm. Late!!?? XW came over to ask me to quit arguing with him. I was surprised. I couldn’t believe this. It’s as if I started this. XMIL asks me to just leave. Just as I was leaving, that idiot repeatedly calls me a lousy father and said ‘fxxx-oxx’. I sarcastically replied, ‘That’s right, swear with the kids around’. He just showed the insecure and immature side of him.
I think he’s suffering from a false sense of entitlement. Unbelievable. And to think I was replaced by a better guy. I really thought XW left me because he’s a much better person after BD. I should have just punch him in the eye.
I went home. I slept well that night. Couldn’t let that idiot bother me. I am the father and nothing is going to change that.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
