What frustrates me is how many times you keep saying you "know" her, etc. Didn't we warn you about her not wanting to R, but you insisted you were right, then felt "hurt" when she didn't want to.

This is HER journey. You have to respect that and stop making it about you. I can't make it any simpler than that. If you talk to her, the M will not be healed because she will feel as if it was YOUR and NOT HER decision.

If you don't care for her enough to let her go and find out what is important to her in her life, then you should just finalize the D and move on. There's no guarantee that the next person you find will not be the same. But that's up to you.

Actually, if you're not going to take what we say seriously, then I'm sorry I can't help you.

Good luck.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER