Roid hang in there, no one on earth could have screwed things up and more consistently then I did..lol for real, and I thought there was no way in hell that I would ever have another shot and I did...like 4 more times, but this time things are different, I know you love youre wife, but flirt back with the girls, it builds your self confidence and your wife will pick up on it, mine did. We are in a much better place right now,im not saying have an affair or anything like that, but wrap to the girls, buy them a drink, know that if you where single you could actually hook up with them...its a huge ego booster, plus you will begin to notice that life will not be all that bad without her. When you reach that point mentally, things will turn...trust me..it did for me. Hang in there...we are all in this together and I got your back!!!


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14