Trying to figure out more 180s for a sitch that was lack of quality time and attention -- without pushing or forcing stuff. He doesn't want to do things together like going out (obviously), but will sit on the couch and watch TV with me and that's about it.

I used to come home from work and get online so I'm reluctant to depart to another room and ignore him, it's what I used to do.

I am going out, not always home, getting a life...but what else?

Not sure what changes to make when "out of sight, out of mind" (IE: doing all the things alone and by myself) is what got me into this mess in the first place.

Is just GAL enough?

BF:40 M:33
SD: 12
T: 8, never married, no kids together
BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try".
PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".