Not sure what to do

[Jacket]

I moved out because we had agreed, back when he called it for good in April, that I would move out at the end of last school year. I kept to my word, though I did ask him several times (at the urging of my DB coach) if he was really sure this was what he wanted. Every time, he said yes, and that he intended to go through with the divorce. He complained after April that I wasn't honoring him and his feelings (i.e., that I was still acting as if our M was salvageable), so I felt that moving out would show him that I really was hearing him and respecting his wishes. I moved out (instead of him moving out) also because I had someone I could move in with and I worried that I wouldn't be able to handle the mortgage if/when we divorced.