D9 asked an interesting question and didn't surprise me about the response!
"If you could wish for anything in the world, what would it be?"
Both kids asked for unlimited wishes. I said I didn't know, and I truly don't. H said unlimited funds...all the money in the world. He's still trying to buy his happiness. I wish it would click that he can't...I know, this is his journey and he is no where close to getting it!
H is still very much in replay. He's losing weight and trying to have me validate all the positives in his life. Still struggles with work and dad. Has lost interest in the kids...no time with them this weekend. I realized this after he and I went golfing...spent with me not kids.
I did finally break down and contacted a lawyer...for info not to retain. At least I'll be prepared for him if he decides to continue this D thing.
Detach, detach, detach...I really need to because I'm struggling hard right now.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
