You're right, that is an expectation that he will respect my request.
I honestly think he would, if only because he fears me getting emotional. I know for a fact that's the LAST thing he would want!
I'm pretty sure he KNOWS that if he drops a bomb on me, it's not going to go well...
Or maybe all my DBing has shown him that this new "Calm, collected, never get my panties in a twist GGG" is the NEW ME. And that's the green light he's needed to feel safe enough to take the next step.
But you're right. I'm talking myself into a mess that might not even exist....
Tonight--nothing to do, nowhere to go, stuck here as usual.
So not spinning is difficult right now.
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?