Thanks, Wonka.

I don't want to miss the opportunity to talk.

This has happened before, he's wanted to talk, I've shut it down out of fear or just not being able to handle it.

We ended up never talking about anything.


So I don't want to blow him off if he's open to some dialogue.

I just can't handle getting more bad news.


Here is my final proposed email response:

" Gubu,

Sure, thanks for letting me know you'd prefer to talk in person.

(I agree, things don't always come across as intended in text/email.)

It would be helpful to let me know ahead of time what you'd like to discuss.

To be fair to you and what you might have to say, I am asking you to wait on revealing anything that might be hurtful right now because I don't think I will be able to respond to it in a constructive way.

I'll let you know as soon as I feel I can have an open dialogue about such things, if that's what you want.

Thanks,

---GGG"

I mean. THIS ^^^^ IS the TRUTH.




Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?