Shining,

At this point, I don't even want to READ that he wants to talk about something unpleasant tomorrow!

I know I can decline to discuss it, but I want to stop that brain-worm from crawling in. Once it's in, it's in for good. Even if we don't "talk" about it.

I need some more time to calm down, more than just overnight.

I guess I don't see why saying "IX-NAY on the AINFUL STUFF-PAY" is so wrong when I feel it's what I need to do to preserve my sanity at the moment.

---GGG

Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?