My fellow Spinner, GGG,

Perhaps take a step back, and identify what is within your control?

If you can't handle a potentially stressful or negative topic yet, then don't agree to have one.

We can't control what others wish to discuss. We can control whether we engage in it.

Get to a good, positive place, then be ready for anything. Because you can't know what someone else, especially in MLC, will say.