Wife walked aways (two months ago now) new thread

[BigMac]

I was just going through paperwork cleaning my office (packing).

I came across some interesting stuff which sets a timeline

2010 - 100 lbs dropped (both of us)
Jan 2011 - Lazy Eye fixed.
May 2011 - Boob job
June 2011 - I change jobs to a high stress high travel job
Jan 2012 - Knee issue, can't run anymore
Aug 2012 - Kidney failure (single kidney)
Jan 2013 - Partial recovery from kidney issue
Feb 2013 - my best friend falls in love with W, she denies anything happened (EA in my opinion)
Fall 2013 - Job hunt, keeps getting to final interviews and turned down
Nov 2013 - Trip to HK and Vietnam, she is completely stressed the entire time
Feb 2014 - W has to move to SF (45 min away) for school
March 2014 - Something snaps (big depression at school)
April 2014 - Gets new job, never comes back
May 2014 - Separation

Basically my low self esteem wife, that I loved dearly (but didn't know how to show love). Went through so many life changes, while I was stressed, depressed an away. I wish I would have known better, and been there for her. Changed myself earlier.

It's funny how hindsight is 20/20