MY TRAGIC WAW STORY PART III

[pilot]

It hurts I would NOT have a relationship talk. Just go out and have a great time. Don't use words use actions. I am in a fairly similar spot where my W may or may not be having second thoughts. Her words say one thing but her actions say another. Our situations are flip flopped though. My W gets in town tonight and will be here for a few days. I'm not going to bring up relationships or anything. We are just going to spend the days together and evenings together and I will just be the badass self I am with her and let her inner voice be the one to have the R talk with her. Nothing I say will make a difference anyways. When I am with her I am the guy she fell for. And honestly I halfway have to fake it because when she is gone I'm back to indifferent. I am doing this not because I have to have her back but I want the option of having her back. Big difference in attitude. Dating without pursuing. Think about it. It works when you are having first dates with strangers. She will want you more when she is not sure she can have you.

Best of luck