Here's what I wanted to write, and honesty, I was feeling a lot better with my caveat in place!

Right now I really don't want to know if he is going to throw another grenade in my foxhole. Not today, not now.
I don't think it's a good idea for me to hear that he is ready to separate our finances, move in with OW, anything. Nothing like that.
I know you guys are here but that needs to wait.

Take my word for it. It NEEDS TO WAIT.

"GUBU,

Sure...thanks for letting me know you’d like to talk in person.
I agree that things don’t always come across as intended in text/email.

It would be helpful to let me know ahead of time what it is that you wish to discuss tomorrow.

However, I would appreciate it if you would hold off on sharing any upsetting information with me at this time.

I am not in a frame of mind to respond to it in a constructive way and that’s not fair to you and what you might have to say.

I don’t mean hold off forever, just until I get my feet back under me. I’ll let you know when that is.



Thanks,

--GGG"


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?