I will use that. I'm going to sit on it a bit though.
But honestly, if he says--even in writing--that we need to move this D forward, or anything about what HE wants next that is going to be hurtful to me... I am not in a place to even read that right now.
So I want to tell him to hold that thought, not forever, but for awhile.
---GGG
That is what self-care is all about. Smart choice.