This is when the Gods punish you for being too cocky....
^^ not true at all. God is all Love.
Your stinkin' thinkin' is causing you to spin and you are trying to control your anxiety by outlining to GUBU what he can/can't do. Do you see that at all?
It could be that GUBU just wanted to talk about your health. Nothing about divorce or any of that stuff.
I think it is good that GUBU wants to talk with you. I seriously doubt it is R talk. A part of me suspects that he's concerned about your health for he sure does notice your weight loss.